As salaamu Alaikum: Someone once said just because you make hijrah or travel to a Muslim land doesn't mean unhappy things or sad things won't happen to you or affect you. The reality is yes, you will still get sick, you will still have those occasional disagreements with your spouse, your children will still work your nerves (as my mother use to say) and you will still feel sadness when you miss your loved ones. There are mixed emotions when you leave they are a great joy( inshaAllah), nervousness, feelings of excitement learning and exploring things about your new home. Connected to that overtime can also be a sense of home sickness. Leaving family behind can be the hardest thing you have to do when you decided to make hijrah. With Allah's guidance, your intentions to please your Lord, learn his religion and the desire to save you family from the negative effects of a non Islamic environment will become stronger. You will overcome your reluctance and hesitation. I love my family and I do miss them. I love Medina and it has become home for us.
Medina means so much to me because of it's significance and importance in Islamic history but also because it is a peaceful place. Prophet Muhammad (sallallahu alihi wa salam) made the hijrah from Mecca to Medina. He made a home for himself and his family now my husband and our family are trying to establish ourselves here following in the footsteps (inshaAllah) of the Sunnah of Prophet Muhammad (sallallahu alihi wa salam) .
Keeping positive relationships going with family and friends in the West by telephone and email will become important when you start to have those (I miss you) feelings as I like to call them. I do not know what the cost is to call direct to the West from a land line the telephone service here is called Saudi Telcomm. There is also Mobily a popular cell phone provider as well as STC and Zain which I am not familiar. Mobily provides prepaid and contract cell phone service. You can also purchase Mobily to use for your home Internet like a wireless card. I have to admit the service has been great the Internet rarely goes out in Shakr and when it does it is only for a few minutes or so which is very common in the states also. I have Mobily as my cell phone carrier and you will be happy to know we get free incoming calls. We are able to receive most web sites here and I say most. You will find which is in my opinion is a good thing some websites do not meet Saudi standards and will be blocked.
Because the traditional system of writing letters and sending them through Saudi Post is basically obsolete. When trying to keep in touch with family and friends I suggest creating an email account (just in case you are that last person on earth that doesn't have one yet.) then get a web cam and microphone. There are several instant messenger programs like MSN, Yahoo, Gmail etc..you may use to chat or video call. The down side to video call and chatting you are bound to the computer sometimes to often or for long periods of time.
Your next options area services called Skype or Magic Jack for monthly or yearly fees you choice a plan and this allows you to make and receive calls to and from your computer. Magic Jack allows you to receive and make calls by utilizing your computer and home telephone. All the services mentioned require you to have Internet. I have used both and find them to be the most convenient way to keep in touch. The links are provided below.
http://www.magicjack.com/7/index.asp
http://www.skype.com/intl/en/useskype/
Mar 31, 2009
Mar 30, 2009
Water and Gas
After being here for sometime people have asked what are the houses like? Do you get more for your money? Are they bigger than in the states? The houses or villas in Medina are fabulous in many instances. The beauty will attract the eye of any onlooker. The simplicity of how construction is done here always amazes me. The construction workers begin with wood as the frame later brick and cement is add over time there will be a gorgeous looking home or apartment standing where there was once a hole in the dirt. Depending on the needs of your family rent can vary of course. In our area an apartment can run approx. 20,000 SR yearly which equates to approx. 530 USD a month for an unfurnished apartment. Coming from Pennsylvania I would have to say this is a good rate.
It is imperative that you understand the water system here. It is not uncommon to run out of water in various areas throughout Saudi. (Keep in mind this is the desert) Water trucks are used to pump water into underground pipes that filter into the homes. Very similar to the oil trucks used in the West for homes that have oil heat. Al humduliliah the area in which I live we rarely have a water shortage. Unfortunately some areas endure lack of water for various reasons like location. Medina is very mountainous new homes that have been developed in those areas often have to deal with water shortage. This can only be remedied by calling in a truck to replenish the pipes.
Cooking requires a match and propane. Yikes! don't be scared. Do you remember grandmas old stove that you had to turn on the gas and then light the burners? Well good it will be like you you never left. Yes, some ovens have the option to use electricity still they require a match to light the burners. There is no need for indoor thermostats attached to outrageous gas bills. The AC will become your best friend in the summer months. Which it is not uncommon to have AC in every room even the kitchen. Even on a beautiful cool Medina day the temperature is pretty warm compared to American standards. On a brisk morning you or the children may need a sweater. Some evenings can be chilly so bring your favorite fleece blanket. I am told that Mecca and Jeddah are always hot.
Here are some pictures just to give you a visual.
What I can see
Outside my frontdoor and My view walking home from my daughters school
When walking along the streets of Al Medina I can see the rich Islamic history all around with every masjid the beauty that echo’s from each sound of the athan piercing the soul. Islam comes alive in your heart. To lie under the same skies of Masjid Sunnah Nabawiyah, Masjid Quba, Masjid Qiblatan and to read about the battles fought at the foot of Mount Uhud while visiting the graves and send the salaams to those companions that fought side by side Prophet Muhammad (SAWS) and gave their lives for Islam is remarkable to say the least. My heart feels so good and my eyes sparkle like a child in the infamous candy store.Prophet Muhammad’s (SAWS) migration from Mecca to Medina was the beginning of monumental events that would change the lives of countless generations of Muslims and their families. The word of Islam would spread to regions around the world and draw the people to al Medina al Munawwarah meaning (The Radiant or Enlightened City) seeking the same peace and solace that was offered to Prophet Muhammad and his followers so many years ago. Narrated Abu Huraira: Allah's Apostle said, "Verily, Belief returns and goes back to Medina as a snake returns and goes back to its hole (when in danger)." Sahih Bukhari,Even today when we think of the women of Medina the names we hear are the same passed down for generations Khadijah, Aisha, and Fatima but the faces are so clearly reflective of Allah’s mercy and his greatness. I have had the opportunity and honor to get to know some of the women who now live in Medina, Saudi Arabia. It has been said that America is a “melting pot”. This may be so in some aspects but the melting pot of the women of Medina is an assemblage of cultures of people brought together by their love for Allah, Islam and all that it embodies.
Masjid across the street, the mountains are the background. My view from the backroom
When walking along the streets of Al Medina I can see the rich Islamic history all around with every masjid the beauty that echo’s from each sound of the athan piercing the soul. Islam comes alive in your heart. To lie under the same skies of Masjid Sunnah Nabawiyah, Masjid Quba, Masjid Qiblatan and to read about the battles fought at the foot of Mount Uhud while visiting the graves and send the salaams to those companions that fought side by side Prophet Muhammad (SAWS) and gave their lives for Islam is remarkable to say the least. My heart feels so good and my eyes sparkle like a child in the infamous candy store.Prophet Muhammad’s (SAWS) migration from Mecca to Medina was the beginning of monumental events that would change the lives of countless generations of Muslims and their families. The word of Islam would spread to regions around the world and draw the people to al Medina al Munawwarah meaning (The Radiant or Enlightened City) seeking the same peace and solace that was offered to Prophet Muhammad and his followers so many years ago. Narrated Abu Huraira: Allah's Apostle said, "Verily, Belief returns and goes back to Medina as a snake returns and goes back to its hole (when in danger)." Sahih Bukhari,Even today when we think of the women of Medina the names we hear are the same passed down for generations Khadijah, Aisha, and Fatima but the faces are so clearly reflective of Allah’s mercy and his greatness. I have had the opportunity and honor to get to know some of the women who now live in Medina, Saudi Arabia. It has been said that America is a “melting pot”. This may be so in some aspects but the melting pot of the women of Medina is an assemblage of cultures of people brought together by their love for Allah, Islam and all that it embodies.
Masjid across the street, the mountains are the background. My view from the backroom
Traveling w/children
As salamu alaikum: As many of us know traveling alone can be difficult and when traveling with children it is just a fitnah that requires alot of sabr. The flight from Pennsylvania to Medina is approx. 14 hours in the air. You must fly into Jeddah and then connect to Medina. I mention this because again preparation is key to any successful travel. If you have small children I recommend if at all possible book a direct evening flight if it is an option. I say this for several reasons. Encourage your children to sleep the majority of the trip. This can give you an opportunity to avoid anxiety, restlessness and behavior issues. Come prepared with coloring books, reading material or even your favorite reciter on your Ipod. Many children have problems dealing with the pressure they may feel from the ears due to the airplanes altitude. Chewing gum, ear plugs or even allowing infants to drink from a bottle can relieve some of the uncomfort. A few years ago our family moved to Morocco (flight time approx. 8hrs.) this departure was an 8pm our youngest child an infant at the time nursed and slept almost the entire trip alhumdulilah. I felt bad for some of the other passengers children crying parents walking up and down the isle trying to soothe children. As much as some of us like to look out the window and see the amazing view from the air. Allow the children to have window seats this will also play as a distraction to pass time. There are several airlines that can transport you to and from Jeddah research peak and off fares and promotions. My experience on Saudi Air has been excellent. The flight is direct and the service is child friendly. I feel comfortable when the pilot makes dua before taking off. During Ramadan sahoor is served before fajr and even on the Thursday flights dates are given to those who may be fasting. MashaAllah. Many of the planes are very spacious with a small musella area in the rear to offer salah.
Luggage is the the second most important part to having a stress free trip. Go on line, call customer service but ALWAYS check the baggage weight restrictions for your airline. Over weight luggage can be the beginning of a nightmare for you. Overweight luggage can delay your boarding and can be expensive if you are not prepared. Simply to avoid this buy or borrow an inexpensive in home scale weigh yourself then hold the luggage have some one read the new weight subtract the new weight from your weight this will tell you how much your luggage weighs and allows you time to reorganize before getting to the airport. If possible bring an additional empty bag with you if needed. My advice is to always adhere to the sunnah and the advice of the Ulema and have your husband or a mahram with you when ever possible so that these issues can be a little less stressful when the entire family is traveling together.
Luggage is the the second most important part to having a stress free trip. Go on line, call customer service but ALWAYS check the baggage weight restrictions for your airline. Over weight luggage can be the beginning of a nightmare for you. Overweight luggage can delay your boarding and can be expensive if you are not prepared. Simply to avoid this buy or borrow an inexpensive in home scale weigh yourself then hold the luggage have some one read the new weight subtract the new weight from your weight this will tell you how much your luggage weighs and allows you time to reorganize before getting to the airport. If possible bring an additional empty bag with you if needed. My advice is to always adhere to the sunnah and the advice of the Ulema and have your husband or a mahram with you when ever possible so that these issues can be a little less stressful when the entire family is traveling together.
Mar 29, 2009
Preparation
As saalamu Alaikum:
I have to admit my choice to create a blog was motivated by another sisters blog that I read often and I find it creative as well as informative to all who have the niyyah (intention) to make hijrah. Thank you Yemeni Niqabi. My intention is to share my feelings and experiences I encountered preparing to move from Pennsylvania and my life now in Medina.
Preparation to make hijrah should be a very calculated event in your life. Moving from one country to another is not only a major event in any ones life but can be a costly event. The first step and most important to coming to Medina is PASSPORTS and VISA'S. If you are like me and have a large family (5 children plus an extended family) begin getting passports when you are able to afford them. Currently the rate for children under 16 is $60 each plus processing fees. Any teen over 16 is $75 if you have plans to leave immediately and need your passports expedited add an additional $60 each. Always check for rate changes and requirements on travel.state.gov. Secondly research details about your new potential home. Find out facts from others who already live there and read literature about visa cost and requirements. The Internet can be a useful tool visit the countries embassy web site or always a blog or two to learn as much useful information as possible that may help you on your way.
The Kingdom of Saudi Arabia requires a visa to enter and to leave. This is a very important matter because there have been many who come and stay sometime then go to the airport to depart with ticket in hand and unable to do so because they have never gotten that all to important EXIT VISA.
I have to admit my choice to create a blog was motivated by another sisters blog that I read often and I find it creative as well as informative to all who have the niyyah (intention) to make hijrah. Thank you Yemeni Niqabi. My intention is to share my feelings and experiences I encountered preparing to move from Pennsylvania and my life now in Medina.
Preparation to make hijrah should be a very calculated event in your life. Moving from one country to another is not only a major event in any ones life but can be a costly event. The first step and most important to coming to Medina is PASSPORTS and VISA'S. If you are like me and have a large family (5 children plus an extended family) begin getting passports when you are able to afford them. Currently the rate for children under 16 is $60 each plus processing fees. Any teen over 16 is $75 if you have plans to leave immediately and need your passports expedited add an additional $60 each. Always check for rate changes and requirements on travel.state.gov. Secondly research details about your new potential home. Find out facts from others who already live there and read literature about visa cost and requirements. The Internet can be a useful tool visit the countries embassy web site or always a blog or two to learn as much useful information as possible that may help you on your way.
The Kingdom of Saudi Arabia requires a visa to enter and to leave. This is a very important matter because there have been many who come and stay sometime then go to the airport to depart with ticket in hand and unable to do so because they have never gotten that all to important EXIT VISA.
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